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Writer's Block: Since you've been gone
Dec. 3rd, 2010 01:34 pm[Error: unknown template qotd]
I'm proud of the fact that I developed the goal and habit of becoming friends with females I was romantically interested in during my high school years. Yes, there was much frustration caused by this approach as a teen and college student as that women I desired just became "special friends" with me. We had intimate relationships without the physical stuff. That often lead to me remaining in irregular contact with many of my former girlfriends.
One of those "special friends" is THE reason I am on LiveJournal. I was in St. Louis at the time and she emailed me about how we could remain in better contact via LJ. And for months, she was my only Friend on the site.
It wasn't until Facebook that I was able to regain stable contact with all of my former girlfriends. They all seemed to have good memories and feelings toward me. While a few may have had traits that I found annoying as a boyfriend, none of that was bad enough for me to not be friends with them since then. I can only think of one woman I dated for 3-4 months in college that I have never regained contact with...mostly because I don't remember her name any more.
I'm proud of the fact that I developed the goal and habit of becoming friends with females I was romantically interested in during my high school years. Yes, there was much frustration caused by this approach as a teen and college student as that women I desired just became "special friends" with me. We had intimate relationships without the physical stuff. That often lead to me remaining in irregular contact with many of my former girlfriends.
One of those "special friends" is THE reason I am on LiveJournal. I was in St. Louis at the time and she emailed me about how we could remain in better contact via LJ. And for months, she was my only Friend on the site.
It wasn't until Facebook that I was able to regain stable contact with all of my former girlfriends. They all seemed to have good memories and feelings toward me. While a few may have had traits that I found annoying as a boyfriend, none of that was bad enough for me to not be friends with them since then. I can only think of one woman I dated for 3-4 months in college that I have never regained contact with...mostly because I don't remember her name any more.
